On the 14th of February
On the 14th of February
On every new calendar I have, I put notes on every special date of every month, like birthdays of family, friends and husband, and mine too, and our anniversary and on the 14th of February.
I always expect the maximum happiness on every occasion and anniversary. Specially after marriage, we females start to enjoy all of these occasion in our special way. We like to feel loved and loving. We want it to be unique and different every time. We get emotionally upset if it didn't work as we wanted it to be.
I am now at home, sitting in my bedroom alone. I am holding this book for about an hour, without reading a word. I am sad because my husband is not here with me on such a day!!! I thought we would having our special night like … like last weekend…
Last weekend, he called and asked me to prepare myself for a wonderful night. After work, he came home, took a shower, put on his clothes, and then we headed to our favorite place. It is the hotel where we usually spend our special moments.
We usually have dinner and dance the whole night. The next morning is a relaxation day, were we throw our routine life behind and just relax.
I remember how many long vacations we took together, we enjoyed traveling together. No matter where we are going, what matters is that we are together.
I jumped to my drawer and pulled our big photo album we have, from the very beginning is our wedding pictures. After that our honeymoon, to be honest, I can't see any different between the pictures of the honeymoon and any other pictures. We enjoyed all our time together. We are always laughing, playing, and dancing.
I don’t remember him making me upset or angry, and if so, he never let me sleep that way. He hates sadness and anger. All he wants from life is to enjoy with me in this short journey" as he name it.
After I finished looking at the pictures, I went to the living room, turned on my laptop. I wanted to send him email, to apologize to him. I feel embarrassed because of my stupid attitude. When he told me he is traveling for 2 weeks, I was outraged, thinking that I will miss one of the most important occasions with him. But now I knew the reason, it is not missing this day I particular, it is how much I am missing him now, and how much I will during these 2 weeks.
I have an email from him, let me see what it is about.
On every new calendar I have, I put notes on every special date of every month, like birthdays of family, friends and husband, and mine too, and our anniversary and on the 14th of February.
I always expect the maximum happiness on every occasion and anniversary. Specially after marriage, we females start to enjoy all of these occasion in our special way. We like to feel loved and loving. We want it to be unique and different every time. We get emotionally upset if it didn't work as we wanted it to be.
I am now at home, sitting in my bedroom alone. I am holding this book for about an hour, without reading a word. I am sad because my husband is not here with me on such a day!!! I thought we would having our special night like … like last weekend…
Last weekend, he called and asked me to prepare myself for a wonderful night. After work, he came home, took a shower, put on his clothes, and then we headed to our favorite place. It is the hotel where we usually spend our special moments.
We usually have dinner and dance the whole night. The next morning is a relaxation day, were we throw our routine life behind and just relax.
I remember how many long vacations we took together, we enjoyed traveling together. No matter where we are going, what matters is that we are together.
I jumped to my drawer and pulled our big photo album we have, from the very beginning is our wedding pictures. After that our honeymoon, to be honest, I can't see any different between the pictures of the honeymoon and any other pictures. We enjoyed all our time together. We are always laughing, playing, and dancing.
I don’t remember him making me upset or angry, and if so, he never let me sleep that way. He hates sadness and anger. All he wants from life is to enjoy with me in this short journey" as he name it.
After I finished looking at the pictures, I went to the living room, turned on my laptop. I wanted to send him email, to apologize to him. I feel embarrassed because of my stupid attitude. When he told me he is traveling for 2 weeks, I was outraged, thinking that I will miss one of the most important occasions with him. But now I knew the reason, it is not missing this day I particular, it is how much I am missing him now, and how much I will during these 2 weeks.
I have an email from him, let me see what it is about.
"For my valentine.. I love you just because
.. you are the best thing happened in my life..
.. you are my angel who looks after me..
.. you make me happy in so many ways..
..you laugh with me and listen to me..
..you are you and always let me be me..
.. you fill every day of my life with love..
I Love You
Always be my Valentine
And let us make this one special ,,, as we always do..
Meet me on the MSN
Your love 4ever
I was astonished with his way of making me every time surprised, he has his own ways and ideas.
I am sure now that there is no a special date or day to celebrate our love. We can make all our days full of occasions and anniversaries or we can make them miserable.
Having the husband you always wanted and dreamed of is something I should celebrate every day.
posted by gOt The sIGn?!! @ 11:32 AM
2 Comments:
I believe this is what they call love...and its all about how we surprise each other and how we make each day different thereofre i do not believe in valentine, not only fdriven from my religion beleifs but because both of my wife and i make each day a day of love expressed in different ways...true lovers do not wait the 14th of Feb to celebrate their love...so i will keep surprising my wife every morning even with a simple "post it" note which i'm sure will draw a smile on her lovely face...
For me,,, it is the same as Fadi said,, really lovers will not wait 14th Feb to celebrate ( who can wait these days :-0 ).. but, there are alot who is waiting 14-Feb, or any day in Jan, March, April, May, June, July, Aug, Sept, Oct, Nov or Dec. to Feel The Love ....
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